Friday, June 7, 2019

Is ULC legal in NY State?

We are not lawyers, but the short answer is it depends. There are certain counties in NY and PA that will not accept that. If you ever decide to move to Tennessee, they will not honor that, in case of separation, etc. If they are properly ordained, you might be okay with that option. Keep in mind that public speaking is best left to the professionals. The local Clerks in NY State tear their hair out, when licenses are not filled out properly, or filed on time! That is why I get so many referrals. If you find yourself needing an officiant immediately, please call us NOW at 518-587-1468. We’ll do our best.

Picture policies during Wedding Ceremony

We do, our policy is we yield to our couples. If you want an unplugged service, I will announce that. If not, I will say some kind words introducing the photographers, and ask your guests not to pop up immediately in front of them… We have seen those horror stories about some ministers stopping the wedding to criticize the photographer! All of our officiants work professionally with all of your vendors. Our Officiants also make a quick side exit, so they are not in your kiss photo!

What should a wedding rehearsal cost?

Ideally little or nothing Many vendors like myself include rehearsal in their Gold and Platinum packages. For a modest additional fee with your Silver Package. We happily offer all of our couples a complimentary guide to running your own rehearsal, which outlines steps that everyone can practice. I like to practice the readings with your speakers, at that time. Ala carte I charge $100-$125. I have heard of other Officiants charging much more.

Should I let vendors know times have changed for the wedding day?

That would be immediately, right after you tell your fiancé and mom! If your preferred Officiant has been booked, we will do our best to make sure your wedding is covered, by our other fine Officiants,; or even helping you contract a competitor who we admire.

Should I pay a vendor to interview for my wedding?

Our policy is no. Many Officiants charge outrageous sums to nickel and dime you into an inevitable higher price, or they d o not like doing Interviews, rehearsals; etc.

Do you perform same-sex weddings?

Yes! Love is love, and we have worked with LGBT couples all the time, and are thrilled to marry all couples who desire marriage. It’s in my code of ethics. (Ask other Officiants if they have one!)

Can we have humor in our wedding?

Absolutely. Not only that, but I can edit lyrics from your favorite songs into readings. Let’s get creative together.